Thursday, 14 May 2015

I can't stand it! Or...

I like my personal space; I like to sit in silence dealing with my affairs on my own. And I don’t like people, who ruin my quiet idyll. Probably nobody likes it. But amount of these “mustard plasters” is growing year by year (as it seem to me). I understand, that sometimes problem is in my character and such things, but really, what can happen to an ordinary person, that in one beautiful day he starts talking all the time. They don’t need you to listen their speech, they just want to talk. As for me, this kind of people is the weirdest one.
This problem seems really funny, because human is sort of social being. But this is not communication, this is not a dialog, just uncomfortable situation, that irritates me (all thoughts i have:“I don’t want to answer, I want to go home, please let me go”).
So, confusing and stressful situations are quite personal things. I mean, people are people, they are different and things, they can’t stand are different as well. Things that I hate, another person can be obsessed with. And this is how we live. We’re trying to find people, who will like the same things as we do, but before we will find them, there will be a lot of stress and conflicts because of the phrase “I can’t stand it!”

And as always, we need to find a compromise. How will we live, if we don’t communicate with people, that don’t like the same music for example? Will we find like-minded persons to hate another like-minded persons together or something? Let’s don’t be rude, let’s be nice and tolerant to each other (it’s rather difficult, but we shall try; at least we shall try to express our opinion without aggression and everything will be fine).

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